![]() ![]() They completely forget that relationships are seldom a cakewalk and that more often than not, they require a lot of maturity, self-awareness, and hard work. Most dumpees are scared that their ex will find someone else and have a happy ever after with that person. Too much of your happiness still depends on your ex, so you probably need a lot more time to find a way to change your mentality from “ My ex was the best I ever had” to “my ex was okay, but the breakup happened for a reason and I need to find out why.” You’ve invested so much of your personal happiness in your ex that you now have a hard time distancing yourself physically and emotionally from your ex. If you feel this way, you need to know that you’re analyzing the breakup so much because you’ve fallen in love with your ex very deeply. It’s making you feel like you’re losing the most important aspect of your life and that someone else will benefit from the money, feelings, and effort you’ve invested in your ex-partner. The thought of someone else taking your place is soul-crushing, to say the least. You have a strong bond and don’t want that bond to be replaced by someone new because you want to be the only person who connects to your ex and plans a future with him or her. You still love your ex and feel connected to him or her. The reason why you’re afraid of your ex sleeping with someone else is, therefore, very simple. Your ex being intimate with another person would basically tell you that your ex doesn’t care about you and your feelings anymore and that your ex is focusing on moving on with other people. It’d also make you extremely anxious and force you to see that your ex doesn’t value you. The idea that he or she is sleeping with someone else is not something you can accept because it would destroy the possibility that your ex still feels romantic feelings for you. You’re still hoping that your ex will come back to you and be intimate with you-and only you. It makes you feel sick to the stomach because you’re not ready to let go of your ex yet. If your ex dumped you or you dumped your ex and still have feelings for your ex, the thought of your ex sleeping with someone else probably kills you.
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